My name is Jessica, I am 29 years old, and I did not own lingerie or actual pajamas.  A few weeks ago a friend told me with extreme judgement and a dash of disappointment that this makes me weird.  Before you join said friend in judgment, hear me out.  I don’t know if you’ve gathered as much from my site, but I don’t get enough action to have need of lingerie.  My phone gets less play than a Tyga album, so who the hell am I wearing it for?!  Also, my bra size is rather uncommon, so even the most basic of bras cost a ridiculous amount of money.  So you see why I am not sold on the idea of buying bras for leisure, which would cost even more (we’re talking triple digits boo).  Lastly, what are all of my random t-shirts collected over the years for if not for me to lounge around and sleep in them?

So I asked some single female friends who also get little to no action what their lingerie collection is looking like, and they too judged me.  I also asked some friends who are married, or are soon to be married, and we all agreed a grown ass woman should have what I am calling a “private wardrobe.” As of late, I’ve been adding to this wardrobe, so let me give you some tips on how and where to start.